Congratulations to all who joyfully celebrated Valentine’s Day with their special someone, and an even bigger congratulations to my fellow single brethren who made it through! If no one sent you love this past weekend, don’t worry! Here’s a special poem just for you, straight from the heart of our very own King Solomon (Song of Solomon 4:9-15).
King Solomon, the son of King David and Bathsheba, is famous for his wisdom, wealth, and… women. His love life is one of the most intriguing, dramatic, and sometimes outright scandalous stories in the Bible.
In 1 Kings 11:3 we read that he had 700 wives & 300 concubines (who said men can’t multitask?)
Solomon’s wives were not limited to Israel; in every sense, he was a lover of many nations. He loved women from Egypt, Moab, Ammon, Edom, Sidon, and the Hittite nation—despite God’s warning that foreign wives might lead his heart astray (Spoiler: They did).
His foreign wives influenced him to build temples for their gods, leading Israel into idolatry (1 Kings 11:4-6). Although he was blessed with wisdom, his lack of obedience reflects his foolishness.
What lessons can we learn from Solomon’s love life?
- Love is powerful (but can be dangerous!) – Solomon’s passion for love inspired him to write some of the most beautiful poetry in the bible, but in trying to please all his lovers, he allowed them to lead led him away from God. Love is a wonderful thing, but we must guard our hearts and stay faithful to our values.
- Romantic words matter – Solomon was the king of smooth-talking. He showed that love isn’t just about acts of service—he made sure his women knew he loved them not just with his actions but also with his words! It’s important to speak life into your relationship. He took time to praise and cherish his beloved, showing that love is more than just physical attraction—it’s about deep admiration and emotional connection.
- Too many options can be a problem – 700 wives and 300 concubines is a recipe for disaster! Keeping that many women happy and peaceful is practically impossible! Solomon’s love life turned into a spiritual mess because he let love control him instead of the other way around. Not only did he allow them to lead him astray, controlling his desires and properly leading the nation would have been difficult with this many women.
- True love is exclusive and not divided – He spread his love so thin that it lost its true meaning. You can’t properly love this many people equally. He was trying to please everyone, but in the end, he lost himself. Quality over quantity—love is best when it’s focused, committed, and faithful.
- Never compromise your faith for love – Solomon started faithful and devoted to God, but compromising for the sake of love slowly led to his downfall
Regardless of your relationship status (single, dating, engaged, married, divorced, or widowed) don’t let your emotions catch you off guard. Always seek God’s wisdom and guidance to help you avoid falling into temptation.
Stay Blessed x
